so you can plan dates, text, and kokuhaku the Japanese way, with success.
Understand WHY Japanese women act the way they do — from kokuhaku to reading the air to the unspoken rules that determine success.
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"Without B and GoGen's advice, I would have never met my Japanese fiancée! I had failed date after failed date... ghosting, 1st, 2nd, and even 3rd dates that led to nowhere. Getting access to GoGen's knowledge changed everything for me."
"This was incredible! I've learned more from GoGen about Japanese dating culture than I learned from months of dating! Failure has turned to success! I wish I had learned about GoGen sooner."
"The structure and design of this course is simply amazing. It makes it easy to internalize the Japanese and the cultural insights that go with it. Totally worth it!"
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Each day covers a critical piece of Japanese dating culture. Preview clips from every module below.
Where does she fall on the spectrum? Learn to screen for compatibility from the first conversation.
Walk through her life from childhood to adulthood — understanding her background translates to much greater dating and relationship success.
The confession system that governs Japanese dating. A failure to fully understand kokuhaku is a top reason for dating failure in Japan.
Another common point of failure: when dating has become a laser-focused, strategic search for marriage. How to identify if she's in "konkatsu mode" and how to navigate it.
Honne vs. tatemae. "Reading the air." Why direct Western communication often backfires.
Facial expressions, physical distance, touch norms, eye contact. She might smile while being deeply uncomfortable. This is how you know.
LINE etiquette, response timing, sticker usage. Reading between the lines of her text patterns.
Date planning is one of the easiest ways to gain points with a Japanese woman, and one of the fastest ways to lose them. Why "winging it" is disrespectful. The reservation mentality. How to invite her the right way.
The multi-tier café system (yes, she's judging your venue choice). First date vs. second vs. third date strategies. Budget traps and what each venue signals.
Specific venue recommendations. Red flags that signal charai. The alcohol question. Ending the date: location, timing, and what happens next.
Japanese apps (Pairs, Tapple, With) vs. Western apps (Bumble, Tinder). Who's on which app — and what that tells you about her "Type."
Screening profiles, moving from app to LINE, Instagram as a dating tool, and the "meet right away" vs. "message first" spectrum.
The 7 most common reasons she ghosted. Recovery strategies. Kokuhaku timing: too early ruins it, too late loses her.
She said yes — now what changes? The post-kokuhaku dynamic shift most foreigners misunderstand. This is where many fumble after "winning."
This course is designed for specific types of students — make sure you're a good fit
Not just theory — real experience navigating Japanese dating culture
Linguist · Certified Translator · Culture Expert
I've been where you are — confused by mixed signals, wondering why dates weren't leading anywhere, making cultural mistakes I didn't even know I was making.
As a graduate-trained linguist who speaks German, Portuguese, Spanish, and Japanese, I've spent my life studying how language and culture shape human connection. After 5+ years of dating in Japan, I learned what actually works. Now I teach how to navigate Japanese dating culture without the trial-and-error pain I went through.
Linguist · Bilingual in Japanese and English
I'm Honoha. A Japanese girl! You probably know me from the GoGen Podcast. Although I'm fully Japanese, I've spent considerable time abroad and dated seriously on both sides of the pond. I know how complex and bewildering Japanese dating culture can be for foreigners. It's another world.
B and I have discussed and analyzed and interviewed for months on end to create an incredibly informative, accurate, and actionable course to get you up to speed many times faster than you would on your own.
None! This course is 75% cultural education, 25% language. You'll learn the essential dating-specific phrases regardless of your starting point. Already speak some Japanese? Even better — you'll learn the nuanced, contextual usage that textbooks never teach.
Absolutely. The cultural principles apply whether you're planning to move to Japan, already living there, or dating Japanese women in your home country. The dating psychology and communication patterns are the same regardless of location.
Our free content (podcast, YouTube) gives you pieces of the puzzle in a conversational format. This course gives you the complete system in the right order — 14 structured modules, specific strategies for each dating stage, live feedback on your actual situations, and a community going through the same journey.
11 lessons across 3 modules are streaming now — covering compatibility screening, the 5 types of Japanese women, the Japanese biographical sketch and life path, and the kokuhaku system. New modules drop weekly, with the full 14-module course completing soon. Your founding member purchase locks in lifetime access to everything live today plus every module still to come, at no extra cost.
30-day money-back guarantee. If after the first module you don't feel like "this alone was worth $48," email us within 30 days for a full refund. Simple as that.
We're rewarding early believers. At $48, you're getting lifetime access to a course that will be $97 after launch. You also get exclusive founding member bonuses that regular students won't receive.
Perfect. Japanese dating culture is actually built for introverts. The structured, rule-based approach (kokuhaku system, formalized dates) means you don't need to rely on social instinct as much as in Western dating. Japan rewards planning and thoughtfulness over spontaneous charm.
You receive lifetime access. Watch modules as many times as you want. You'll also get all future updates at no additional cost. Version 1.0 becomes 2.0 becomes 3.0 — you get it all.
The rules exist whether you know them or not — in Tokyo, in New York, wherever she's from. In 14 days, you'll know every one that matters.
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